If you are new to the BDSM scene, do some research on the general rules and conventions. If you are experienced, be very specific about your interests, hard limits, and what you wish to gain from the session.

 

How long has Mistress been a Professional Dominatrix? 

I did My apprenticeship in 2010 and started building Dark Horse Dungeon later that same year.   

WhyWW

Why and how did Mistress get started? 

Believe it or not, I was not personally interested in BDSM at the time.  I approached it more as an acting gig.  I loved it from day one, although it took Me a long time to become good at it.  After completing My apprenticeship, I persuaded My lifelong companion (who soon changed His name to Master Karl) to start the Dungeon together. We started out with a dog collar from the pet shop and a horse crop.  There was no good BDSM gear available in Cape Town in those days, we had to learn how to make all our leather and wooden equipment ourselves.  Master Karl tragically passed away from renal failure soon after we established the business.  It was unbelievably difficult to carry on, but looking back I am very glad that I persisted.

​

What moves Me?

I enjoy the power I have over My slave.
The slave literally puts their life in My hands, knowing nothing about Me, with no guarantee that they are in a safe environment. Their desire to serve Me is so strong that they throw all caution to the wind, just for the sake of being in My company. But when they report for service the first time, even the most experienced slave is legit scared for their lives. For good reason, and rightly so. Toying with that fear is absolutely exhilarating. It turns Me on and inspires Me to keep pushing boundaries.
The comical absurdity of it all is also not lost on Me and I can entertain Myself with it for hours.

The dom/sub relationship is incredibly intimate and building a strong bond with My slave is a rewarding journey.

​

​

Where is Mistress located? 

The dungeon is at My own private residence located in Oakdale, Bellville in Cape Town.  Ironically, I am not from Berlin, nor am I German. 

I was born and raised in South Africa. 

​

Which activities do Mistress enjoy the most?

Hard to choose. I am a true sadist, so caning, whipping and CBT thrills and delights Me. I enjoy dressing up My sissies and taking them out in public to shop for lingerie.  Back at the dungeon I like to fuck them in the ass like a girl. 

I definitely love tight bondage and electro play.  My rubberboys are good fun.  Most of all, I enjoy getting into their minds and fucking with them on a psychological level.
 

How do I book a session? 

The best way to book a session is by filling out a slave Application Form and contacting Me via My website. Alternatively, you may email Me at mistress.berlin.ctown@gmail.com. Bookings must be made a day in advance and Mistress requires a 50% deposit upon booking confirmation. Bookings are only necessary for In-Person Sessions, Live Video Sessions and slave Training Courses. Live Messaging, Permission to Speak, and Tasks are instant products - meaning you will receive an immediate reply.

​

Why do I have to pay a deposit?

The slave is required to pay a deposit to ensure that they honor their booked session. This ensures that I don't waste My time if the slave gets cold feet.  After all this time I still plan and prepare for every session,  and I hate working for free.

​

How long does a session last?

In-person sessions can last anything between one hour to one week. Online sessions vary from 15 minutes to one week depending on their budget and My availability of course.

​

Is it safe?

Yes.  The slave is My property, and I look after My property as I do My motorcycle or My dog.  I have their best interest at heart.  I have worked here in My dungeon in Oakdale for 13 years.  I work alone.  I have a good reputation and shall not tarnish that.  The same goes for online servitude.  This is not a scam, Mistress will not run away with your money, My payment platform is secure. Discretion is guaranteed.

Will I be allowed to cum?
Orgasm is a reward for good service and is not to be taken for granted. It is NEVER a given and will only be awarded to those who pleased Mistress.  The slave is here for My pleasure and amusement afterall. 

What if Mistress hurts me too much?
Consent is 'n pillar at the core of BDSM. Mistress will never do anything to put the slave in any real danger or disrespect their hard limits. I have a well honed sense of when a slave is reaching their limit. I can tell when the pain becomes too much, and the slave is in real distress. Every slave is given a safe word.  They are encouraged not to use it as it spoils My fun. Using the safe word will not end the session, only the current activity. We will discuss, regroup, and find a way to carry on

​​

 What are Mistress's hard limits?

I don't get undressed. 

May I give Mistress a gift?
I prefer to choose Her gifts. I have expensive taste; do not burden Me  with trash. If you would like to give Me a gift, you may approach Me and ask Me to pick a gift of My liking. Mistress can never have enough outfits and gear.

​

 What other services are on offer?

I offer couples training and individual training for women who want to learn.   The dungeon is rented out to experienced couples for private play.  Occasionally I get requests for photo sessions from women who want to dress up and be a domme for a day.   

​

## What must I do in preparation for my session?
Come clean and smell nice.  Arrive freshly showered and sober. Mistress likes Her slaves to be well groomed. Where possible, be clean shaven. If the session is to include anal play, kindly douche (ideally 2 hours) before the session. You can buy a single-use douche at any local pharmacy at a reasonable price.

## What happens when I arrive for an in-person session?
If the session has not been discussed beforehand, the first thing I do when a slave arrives at the Dungeon is sit them down for a discussion regarding their hard limits and safeword. I usually ask the sub/slave to give explicit consent to everything that they wish to experience in the session. Consent is the core of BDSM and I will NEVER put a sub/slave in any real danger or disrespect their boundaries and hard limits. Every slave receives a safeword that can be used when they feel the need. If the session has been discussed beforehand, the slave will immediately be told to get undressed, fold their clothes neatly and leave it by the door. The slave will kneel before Me and be collared. Once the slave is collared, it becomes My property.